I knew my husband for atleast 10 yrs before marriage. We were really good friends, he was sharing his crushes and I was mine. Honestly- not to sound filmy, we did not realise we were in love and eventually we got married. Before marriage I knew his family depended on him financially and his nat5ure. But I don't know how it happened that I got possive of my husband and things turned different. There was a kind of tension around this. Before marriage I used to tell to save andstuff nd after marriage when i said the same thing he felt I was trying to create distance between his family and him.
Things were bad from his end too. Suddenly he hated my lifestyle and my friends. He knew all of them before and we all did go out and suddenly he wanted us to hangout more with his friends.
I know these might sound silly, all I am saying is be clear. when you are married it doe snot matter if he is your best friend or not. He is your husband and there are few demands and expecations from both ends. You might agree and emphazise as a friend but not as a wife and visa versa.
Good luck to all of you.
I am happyly marriaed to "my friend" and we have 2 children and I coulc not ask for more. but I did loose my best friend but gained a good husband
