I will like to share my personal experience with you i belong to a practising muslim family {SHAIKH}& my lady love for the last three years is shocking also a muslim but she is a {ANSARI} she belongs to UP & myself from mumbai.The conflict is that according to her father she should only marry a {ANSARI} boy & not a {SHAIKH} so i am still trying to convince her father from the bottom of heart that in our religion we dont have caste/state/language/sirnames as a factor which can put two loving hearts away from eachothers as far as both are muslims. May ALLAH give hidayat to everyone.