Children are your guest! Treat them well :-).First understand that we have no rights over them and they came to us not that because we wanted them or they wanted, but the god or the nature decides and realtes the particular child to us... Do you think that you can change thier attitude or behaviour because of your rules and regualtions ??hmm if you think yes, then you are immatured and havenot understood the meaning of life....Through your logical mind and think spritually, you will get a answer.