Whether jobs comes first or family...I think if you dont have a job you will not get the spouse you are looing for. So job comes first. But, unfortunately, there are some spouses who forget the importance of their counterparts' job after the marriage. They rather start priortising their personal lives which causes the job to suffer and the carrier too. On the other hand ourpose of job is also fulfilling personal life. SO there should be a balance. But, I feel, the job should not over exploit a person, rather it should allow one to grow so that he/she can enjoy family life nicely.
