There is a differnce between the lust and the love. Lust demands live in relationship and love request only company.
We are not animals, we are human beings and we should understand this. Be human, love humanity. Be indian and ask others to follow your culture rather then following westen culture. Today we say livein is o.k, after 5 years we may say lesbo and gays are o.k, after 10 years we may say incest relationship is o.k.