It is not necessary to have children as soon as you are living in or married. It depends on a couples emotional needs not society or culture or religion.
In 95% of the cases, parents satisfy their ego,needs etc through (mostly) sons and the girl he brings in and the family she hails from. So they are selfish.
You are talking about Western country realizing what?? India has one of the lowest Divorce rate but comparable infidelity rate and marital depression more than western countries. According to 2006 UN report, 1 out of 2 children in India is either abused physically or sexually . It is not west, come here to Malaysia, you will see people living freely the way they want and remind you, this is a Muslim country.
Of course those who live in simply out of attraction for a person physically or that they satisfy something they want is a terrible mistake unless they are extremely lucky.
Bottom line, Guys like you...Roam around with as many girls you can bait and hunt, then when the bells ring for marriage you leave them all by giving silly reasons and get married that slim, fair, tall girl preserving our great INDIAN Culture and honoring your parents...and those girls, what about them? who cares right?
