First of all we have to be honest to ourselves.. Why do u need a live in relationship??? Is it just for fun and for ure own convinience??? Or is it a trial, before u commit to live with that person for rest of ure life?? As PAL said for any relation to work, you need to have a good undersanding, treat your partner the same way as you treat yourself. I am an Indian who has been living in London. So, I have seen the life in the east as well as the west. Generally men see themselves superior to women. Luckily its not all men in India (I would say around 75%. No offence to the rest of 25%). Once you get married to that women, they treat their partners like pet. After the first few weeks of romance or lust or wutever u say, then its an adjustment between the both parties rest of their life. By then they have kids, and then comes middle age crisis, and we all know wut happens. So, live in relationships can be a reality check. By living in with someone, u could ask the questions like is this person, I would like to wake up with rest of my life, to grow old with, etc, etc. Once u r married then getting out of it is more harder. I dont completely agree with the argument abt living together could be illicit and immoral. It could be illicit and immoral if u r doing it just out of lust and nothing else. Living in relationships can work out really well if u treat this as ure next step to a good relationship, before commiting to each other.
