Now on what basis have you drawn the conclusion that i'am a naive guy with an inferiority complex? Basing an opinion on a guy who you have never seen or met is as naive as it can get!! Drawing conclusions based on your observations(keeping eyes and ears open!!)does not equate to having a complex! Moving around with eyes and ears closed and believing what you want to believe is naive and kiddish. And Satya if you have the simplicity of a country yokel, that is not my problem. If i start tailoring my comments for every stupid hoi polloi like you, then i may have to stoop to the level of a chracterless spineless individual who lives in a fantasy land that has no connection with reality. Indians are generally fatalistic people - that is a generalization, does it mean that i have nationwide stats on Indians? "Do you have nationwide stats on who strays and who does not" is as naive as it can get!! Well, men who do not go around with hungry lecherous eyes and who have an identity of their own are chivalrous enough to give women the benefit of the doubt. Unfortuntely you seem to belong to the category that thinks that any girl is a cheapstake which is not true.Maybe your sense of self worth is just so low that any attention from any plain Jane makes you feel that you are Tom Cruise.... Yuck! Yuck! Having a fling is a personal choice the woman makes, that women are drawn to men who make it in life is known even to teenagers, yet you do not seem to appreciate that simple fact. Leading a hedonistic debauched lifestyle is a personal decision, who are we to moralize? Logic says that every move in the corporate sector has some monetary end!! Having a fling with a senior who can make a difference to a woman's career makes atleast some sense, nothing to be gained by having a fling with a junior, this is just pure logic. Sometimes pure logic does not work, so what is the big deal? Next time grow up a little bit, and yes add a dash of pragmatic realism, add a little maturity, get a dose of self worth, you unfortunate puny loser and you are not as bad as you think you are!! Seriously Satya, you are not that Bad!! All the best, AMOD