the topic of singlehood has somehow become closer to my heart as i am moving towards my twenty seven. Call it social conditioning, call it peer pressure or maybe my own heartfelt wish - I do want to find my special someone, my 'soulmate'. The question is that do we simply want to double up for we can not stand being 'seen' as single, as 'lonely', as 'vulnerable', 'anchorless' or we are putting a restraint on ourselves till we find what we are searching for and commit ourselves to him / her. We 'choose' to spend set anchor at a shore together, unregretful of shores that we could have gone to or the ones we missed. It takes courage, it takes determination and yes, a degree of self worth and confidence to be able to do that. But, yes we possess it and thats why we are single. I do hope I will find my 'soulmate' soon enough but even if not, i am ready to wait for him for i know its worth it. The relationship is worth it and i am worth the relationship.
