I had a affair with my boss earlier though one position senior to me. She used me which i got to know later where i also used her for my professional reason.. ultimately the work which i did was to getting me recoginisation then what i have got because of this affair. she offcourse is in the similar position and I being grown up.. now she plays similar tricks with other colleagues of her and thats something which i cant digest. I had miserable time because of this lady going out with other guys, it took time to get into normal life and yes offcourse one should know how to handle is professional life having such affairs at times it effects your productivity and ideas. We had been on this affair for 2 years and now she is my good friend with no relationship and i am glad that i got rid of this lady.