sex no doubt should be a special encounter with the special one. but alas! many ,in fact, majoirty wish for a fleeting encounter, a short term relationship without commitments. sex should be something special you give to your spouse, something solely for the two souls. having such an attitude dosnt mean you are old-fashoned, primitive or prude but it infact means u r smart, as u know who deserves it the best and u dont go distributing it like a prasad!! so cheers to all who think alike:)