Being a guy I would definely like to answer your question. I was totally agree with you, in fact my mind was full of sex although I used to believe that it should be happen only with one whom you love you care coz Girl is not only a instrument. I used to think that untill unless you are married commited to one person you are free to do all this. I tried to go for sex many times but I could not . Definitely it was my inner thoughts only. One was pushing ahead and another was taking it back. Then I thought to give it a final answer. What is good and what is bad. Another "I" rose inside me and told that girl is respectable before love.What if others also do it. Can't you see the example of America there mostly person are converting into gay. We must understand that both have been made copmletely different and must act accordingly , however I am never against of equlity . But I am definitely against of sex or any kind of minor sexual activities. Afterall if we try to see everything even sex we do itfor pleasure but if you dont go in right direction that pleasure you won't be able to have with lots of woman which you can have with single.