if i could look at it across a sweep of a hand, i could say that it is the beliefs one grow up with, it is the kind of values that one hold on to as we grow, it is the decisions one takes depending on past experiences (ours or theirs, which make us react to such topics. lets sit apart from all these and give the subject a glance. what are we looking in a relationship? a kind of companionship, a kind of committment to give and then get, a kind of childish excitement in keeping the movement as unexpected as ever. well if that is it then sex is only one part of the whole thing. that would definitely be my stand.
if and ony if, a big if defnitely, one can keep away the emotional aspect of relationship, then go ahead - sex is just a tool for a moment's joy. live with the sweetness of those moment's memories. how long? you decide? worth the effort? time will tell you.
