Well I always thought that I am quite conservative and old fashioned in my thought process and ust like you time and again I have been told by some of the friends that there "is nothing wrong in it". Not that I am a saint but for me dealing with that post guilt is more difficult then to have that moment of fun... Though I agree that when the beast of lust takes over your thinkink capacity then at that moment you really do not need intimate emotions but the reality creeps in preety quick (at least for me). To be honest I am always in this dilemma "to cross the line or not". By the I have a Nike t-shirt that says "Just Did It"