Oft times it's difficult to come with right or wrong answers in terms of love and relationships. Sex as u pointed out is based on trust and giving urself to the other completely with ur whole and soul. Real sex becoms meaningful only when the mind and the heart are in unison. I feel differently abt pre-marital sex though. In a way, sex also puts things in perspective. Lets face it we dont want to marry ppl who dont smell right or whose aggression we find too much to take! In most cases sex helps us detrmine the longevity of our relationship with the person. Lust and love are two different things and yet they are connected in so many ways. One without the other is incomplete. Again, this is a personal opinion and ppl are free to disagree. Sex before marraige or after it, requires two mature individuals who love unconditionally:D
