I fully agree with Sarah Ribak's contention.But I know a case where the girl is a Ph.D and had to support her parents.Nobody was willing to marry her along with her parents.What is the harm if she had an associate whom she did not wish to marry. I know another case where a young man with good health and less money could not marry because he cannot support a family.What is the harm if he goes a bit astray. A Senior Citizen