Yes i do agree everybody has his own personal point of view..
as per this article ur friend gave u some suggestion why one can have a sex fling...and beside all these suggestion..u seemed not convinced...
but to me life is always an update, if you use a computer every second day there is an update to me it better..u can say like msn..the versions are changed every 6month.. it started from 5 and now it ave reached till 7.5 version...could u tell me why!!
and its same for life also, what thinking people were having in 80s or 90s..it need to be updated as now its 2006...so to me ur version seem to be old and it got to be updated.. for the better life..