There lies the difference between beasts and human, I support you fully. But don't get disappointed if your would be spouse is not a virgin as you would certainly like him/her to be. And this virtue of being in this culture rather than the all-consuming western stuff is this kind of thoughts. I hope more people will support us. Love and Lust are very different.
Here's Shakespeare's Sonnet no: 129
The expense of spirit in a waste of shame
Is lust in action; and till action, lust
Is perjured, murderous, bloody, full of blame,
Savage, extreme, rude, cruel, not to trust,
Enjoy'd no sooner but despised straight,
Past reason hunted, and no sooner had
Past reason hated, as a swallow'd bait
On purpose laid to make the taker mad;
Mad in pursuit and in possession so;
Had, having, and in quest to have, extreme;
A bliss in proof, and proved, a very woe;
Before, a joy proposed; behind, a dream.
All this the world well knows; yet none knows well
