It's true that we get hurt by others act, but better we shud learn not to get ignore that and at the same time shud not allow people to sit on our head.
What happened to Zidane himself? It's b'cos of all his temper France lost their chance for Worldcut in last few minutes, right? Ofcourse materazzi is the real culprit in this issue, but Zidane shud've been more proffessional as his resposibilty is not only about himself but the whole team itself. Also, when we make our weakness apparent to the opponent they'll try to take advantage on that. I personally feel that MAterazzi tried to do that............
Same applies to all........ We shud be able to control our anger or whatever negative emotions and be patient. Ofcourse tough to practice, but has many advantages if we cud practice this........