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Use your head for thinking not hitting :)
by Ali on Jul 16, 2006 02:16 PM

Dear Freinds,

By clicking on this link, You have taken the first step towards controlling anger

As the elders said "When you are angry, you dont control yourself but the Satan controls you" Hence dont give your control in the hands of a third party which deviates you from acheiving your goals.

First try and calm youself down (100's of ways..) and beleive firmly that you can handle this matter more wisely and more effectively by thinking in peace about it and not when you are angry.

Thus you will be able to understand the issue in its full complexity and take right actions.

You will overcome your opponent (Chances are much much better..) in a sensible, respectable way which he/she will not be able to run around with.

And sometimes you may also understand their viewpoints and take a justified action.

Tips:
1) Dont generalise people
2) Think positive about people
3) They are all human beings like us.... (Think from their perspective before making judgements)
4) Keep eye on your goal and dont get carried away by events distracting you

Regards,

Ali


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