Shujat, I partly agree with you but some sacrifices have to be given when a 'nation is being built'. As far as the money part goes,I also find many married couples running after it,and compromising with their family time.This is not going to help in the long run,and is the very reason why the problems in marriage are increasing and the divorce rate is also on th up side.They are so much career-oriented that sometimes they don't realize they have a spouse/kids etc.Basically they are selfish people and should stay away from marriage rather than going into it and giving marriage a bad name.