Dude , you are going over board with your emotions, whats wrong if someone asks you to help your country men, if you want to do more than that thats your greatness, but theres nothing wrong in asking you to help your country men, you start from your home ... thats what people say...so you start from your country men n then go on to lhelp others... Just stop being cynicy and question everything rediff or for that sake anyone does..Learn to accept some things..