I think the most important thing is to have confidence in your child's ability.Just let him be his normal self.Chldren are survivors and they know what clicks in their favour.I am a father of a 4 year old son.And have never thought of things that you guys write about.My son got his admission in 2 schools in Mumbai, by just being hisself and doing what he does best, identify cars .Only one school has not called him for a mid term admission-too bad for them.Parents don't fret and lose sleep over this,you child is the best thing that has happened to the world.