Okie, fine!! got it now!! so, there is neway a secret forum(rediff, msn, timesnow etc) where you people converse...and you create an illusion here just to put off the guys who abuse your messages?? right??
So, your logic is that the abusrs will get frsutrated and stop reporting for abuse and then you would not need a secret forum to converse.....you can have your convos here in rediff forum, right??