I can be sweet to people who deserve to be and obnoxious to those who deserve that. To understand my obnoxious, you have to leave your cocoon of comfort and live in Kashmir as a Hindu for 15 years.. lead a normal life going to school, seeing your friends slaughtered, people ransacking your home, raping me and my sister etc!. if you do get to enjoy that panorama, you will stop patronizing and preaching.
