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Plight of Indian women
by Nemediyah on Apr 29, 2008 03:29 PM  Permalink  | Hide replies

Yesterday our PM called female infanticide as a blot on our nation and now this along with dowry deaths. We launch 10 satellites, host Common wealth, but we remain very brutal and backwards towards half of humanity.

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RE:Plight of Indian women
by Jai Babu on Apr 29, 2008 04:41 PM  Permalink
Most of these leaders are paying only Lip Service. Our society as a whole has to undergo gender sensitization. Look at the way many communities treat their women, wives, daughters, daughter in law, etc. Many affluent communities are also equally bad. The girl child is dicri,inated against right from birth to childhood, teenage and post marriage. They are looked upon as objects & posession. All this bullshit about Ghar Ki Laaj, Izzat, Paraya Dhan, etc. We worship a godess as Devi and then happily go and burn a woman for dowry or kill the female child in the womb itself. Progress! Humbug. Till the day we accept this hypocracy and right at each individual family level imbibe and teach values and respect for females, such crime will keep happening.

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RE:LEGALISE PROSTITUTION ???(PRIYANK DUBE)
by Abdul Majeed on Apr 29, 2008 03:25 PM  Permalink 

Are u raedy to make u r mother,sister and daughter pros think before u speak now in INdia prostitution is illegal iNspite of rape where has the people got money next thing u will tell is give money to people to go to brothel?


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330 cases in 4 months
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 03:24 PM  Permalink  | Hide replies

If all 4 months are taken as of 31 day(maximum days) then the total is 124 day.
At 330 rapes, which work out at average of 2.66 rapes a day.
Now that is a big figure.
What is the government doing and what is Police doing about all this.
Who is paying the Police or the officials In charge to turn a blind eye towards this crime.
Do we ever hear that the offenders have been caught and justice have been done.
NO all we read is statistics and no conclusion.
We don't hear about the offenders at all not even there names let alone pictures.
just victims face and name spread across the front page of news papers and bill boards.
Who is at fault here.
The top marks go to Police, Then the Government who make the law but do not ask questions wghy it is not working.
It is a big SHAME a slap on the face of government and Police females as young as 10 and as old as 60 are being raped and the law is not doing any thing about it, but just laughing in the face of the victim.



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RE:330 cases in 4 months
by Shalini Lohumi on Apr 29, 2008 03:52 PM  Permalink
Please note that most of these cases are false and will be proved false in the due course of time. These are ONLY REPORTED FIGURES and NOT NECESSARILY CORRECT NUMBER OF RAPES. Please do go through the court orders in which most of the times it is observed that :

1. Most of the cases are registered by the complianant or agency in order to settle personal scores.

2. Second most reason is : when a girl / women gets caught in a relationship - she with the help of her family implicate her boyfriends / other man.

3. In most of the cases both boy and girl are involved willingly but when they fall out of love or agreement or whatever - the girl/women use Rape Law as weapon - much like the dowry law in India.

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RE:330 cases in 4 months
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 04:07 PM  Permalink
May be you are right but we are not talking about false acquisitions or what ever.
That is the job of the courts and the both the accused and the victim to prove them self innocent.
If a rape is reported and we go by your thoughts then all actual rapes will also be ignored.
We cant just go and say look girl you are just making it up because of XYZ reasons.
Shalini Lohumi (your name sounds of a female), try making a false statement and then get ignored or get raped and make a statement and be ignored see how you feel.
The rule of the law is that if a complain is filed it has to be folowed adnd brought to court where if the accused is innocent then he will be awarded justice according ly and accuser punished for wrong doings.
But if it is the other way around then th accused get punished.
Public is no one to judge any one or dish ot punishment.



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330 Looks like stock mkt is
by kurnoolbomb on Apr 29, 2008 03:19 PM  Permalink  | Hide replies

These cases are the REPORTED ones what about unreported or non reported because of several reasons. Reasons of FEAR, Acceptance in the society.....etc. SHAME CAPITAL RAPE CAPITAL DELHI. We are proud to say SONIA GANDHI, RENUKA CHOWDARY, SHEILA DIXIT live in Rape Capital NEW DELHI.

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RE:330 Looks like stock mkt is
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 03:33 PM  Permalink
Yes the unreported don't count for the resons you mentioned and many more.
Let Sonia Gandhi's daughter (God forbid)get raped or few ministers or Police chiefs daughters get raped and soon the law will be tightened and enforced vigorously.
Police will loose her sleep and the crime will be virtually wiped off over night.
Until then the normal citizens will have to suffer the consequences.
I am very sorry to say that but that is how Indian penal system works.
It does not stir into action until the victims are the lawmakers and law enforcers families them self.
If it was working then all this EVE teasing,bottom pinching and all other harassments to the females would have stopped long ago.
THE LAW IN INDIA IS AN ASS.



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RE:330 Looks like stock mkt is
by raj g on Apr 29, 2008 03:47 PM  Permalink
dont worry if any of these top people get raped.. they wil just use it for climbing up on seat

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RE:RE:330 Looks like stock mkt is
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 07:10 PM  Permalink
In a way You are right, Cases like rape does not matter to them be it a female of their own family they are well used to it.
These people Rape the country daily bases, what is a women for them.


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RE:RE:330 Looks like stock mkt is
by Shalini Lohumi on Apr 29, 2008 03:45 PM  Permalink
Of the reported cases, most are actually false. A girl whenever alleges that she was molested, immediately the case is registered. Actual picture comes out in the court where more often than not it is proved that the girls/women was involved with her own will and later converted it to a criminal case.

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RE:330 Looks like stock mkt is
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 04:09 PM  Permalink
Shalini Lohumi are you a lawyer or a judge that you know most cases are false.
Or are you a male who favor free sex even if you have to rape some one.
If you are a female then i would say try getting gang raped you will soon get the idea first hand.


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LEGALISE PROSTITUTION ???
by Priyank Dube on Apr 29, 2008 03:15 PM  Permalink  | Hide replies

I am of the thought that legalising prostitution and making it easy access for people might be the right thing to do, apart for making stricter laws and implementing them more strictly.
Wat does the people on forum think of that??

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RE:LEGALISE PROSTITUTION ???
by Abdul Majeed on Apr 29, 2008 03:23 PM  Permalink
Are u raedy to make u r mother,sister and daughter pros think before u speak now in dia prostitution is illegal ispite of rape where has the people got money next thing u will tell is give money to people to go to brothel?

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RE:LEGALISE PROSTITUTION ???
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 03:39 PM  Permalink
Even if the prostitution is legalized it will not work.
Indians look for every thing For FREE, Prostitutes will ask for money.
No money no entertainment.
The only answer is Rape and this will carry on.
Men got to be more responsible (mind you not all man are are rapists ) but all women are potential victims.
Prison for long term with chemical castration is the answer.
No Libido no rape.Rapist will have to live without sex for rest of his life no family nothing now that is a life time imprisonment on the outside of jail.



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RE:LEGALISE PROSTITUTION ???
by PKN on Apr 29, 2008 03:35 PM  Permalink
What an idea!
Understand an issue before you open your mouth and put foot into it .
Are you suggesting that every rapist is doing so because he could not find a LEGAL Prostitute? A damn Cop who picks up a salary cheque for being a law enforcer rapes a kid and we waste our time talikg about legalizing prositution and charging servcie tax on pimps !




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Follow the islamic moral code conduct
by Abdul Majeed on Apr 29, 2008 03:13 PM  Permalink  | Hide replies

Men should lower their eyes when seeing women who are strangers and women should dress modestly 90% reduction of rapes and the remaining 10% death sentence is the solution.


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RE:Follow the islamic moral code conduct
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 03:52 PM  Permalink
dressings is not the problem,It is the uncontrollable desire of men who just think five minutes pleaser is a great fun.
Without giving second thought to the victim.
A girl dressed in Mini skirt does not have a label pasted on her(RAPE ME), but it pasted in the brains of men, RAPE HER.
A girl chatting happily with a stranger for few seconds (even if she is asking directions) will be classed as asking for sex.
Or the men will boast to friends if asked who was she what did she want,the answer will be MY NEW GIRLFRIEND, OR SHE IS AFTER ME FOR SEX BUT I DON'T WANT IT.ETC, opening the gate way for the friends.
They don't say she was just asking directions.
And if the person did say she was asking directions then the answer would be you should have given her the directions to my house or flat.etc. we would have looked after her.
That is the mentality of the (not all) but irresponsible males.
These misbehaving males have to be taught a lesson in behaving like good citizens.
The only punishment should be imprisonment and permanent castration.



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RE:Follow the islamic moral code conduct
by inderjeet singh on Apr 29, 2008 03:17 PM  Permalink
than why more number of the rape happens in the rural parts as compared to big cities??????

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RE:Follow the islamic moral code conduct
by Abdul Majeed on Apr 29, 2008 03:31 PM  Permalink
Who told riral women dress modestly the tarditinal dresses are also very revealing and eyecatching

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@ARUN
by JACKSON on Apr 29, 2008 03:09 PM  Permalink  | Hide replies

ASK YOUR SISTERS TO GO ON STREET WITH JEANS AND IN MINI WITH EXPOSING HER PARTS.
THEN DON'T BLAME SOMEBODY RAPES HER OK.


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RE:@ARUN
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 03:53 PM  Permalink
She has all the rights to go out in JEANS AND MINI SKIRT BUT NO ONE HAS ANY RIGHT TO RAPE HER.

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Dangerous!! If your very close relatives or friends raping you, who can save you???
by anirban bandyopadhyay on Apr 29, 2008 03:03 PM  Permalink  | Hide replies


Only thing is to hang them and identify parameters which creates these character.

Destroy those parameters.

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RE:Dangerous!! If your very close relatives or friends raping you, who can save you???
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 03:54 PM  Permalink
when caught there names and pictures should be on the front page of the news paper and not of the victim.

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RE:Dangerous!! If your very close relatives or friends raping you, who can save you???
by kurnoolbomb on Apr 29, 2008 03:20 PM  Permalink
Hang them Upside Down by the "GOTIS"

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RE:Follow the islamic moral code conduct
by Ateeq ur Rehman on Apr 29, 2008 03:04 PM  Permalink
i do agree, Mr jackson thats is missing from rest of the religion

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Congress and BJP cannot develop a good country. We need good leaders, good political parties and good cadres to do the same.
by Sahadevan KK on Apr 29, 2008 03:02 PM  Permalink  | Hide replies

Congress and BJP cannot develop a good country. We need good leaders, good political parties and good cadres to do the same.

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RE:Congress and BJP cannot develop a good country. We need good leaders, good political parties and good cadres to do the same.
by kurnoolbomb on Apr 29, 2008 03:21 PM  Permalink
Remember Nandigram Rapes !

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RE:Congress and BJP cannot develop a good country. We need good leaders, good political parties and good cadres to do the same.
by A K on Apr 29, 2008 03:04 PM  Permalink
Rightly said brother I am with you.

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RE:Congress and BJP cannot develop a good country. We need good leaders, good political parties and good cadres to do the same.
by Sheetal Kaur on Apr 29, 2008 03:58 PM  Permalink
And also good public, the one takes the law seriously and respectfully,the one do not go around offering bribes to the official.
The onuses are both ways and not only with the government.
Bribe payers and takers should also be charged for diverting the course of justice regardless of who they are.

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