All the posts are by men...they have spoken so knowledgeably,as if they all have DOCTORATE on the topic.I think from my viewpoint(that of a woman)what they have missed is the 'human angle'in the broken heart syndrome. Deep down all men are embarassed to admit their weaknesses and have tried to cover it up by throwing lot of accusations and garbage on the so called NEEDS of women which apparently is only MONEY. I am looking forward to the flak that I will get for this post of mine. Looking forward to some obnoxious posts.
RE:This is a docs forum...
by bihari babu on Apr 05, 2008 01:14 AM Permalink
Actually i just meant to say the facts. Not opinion. It is truth that maximum violance is happening at home, because men-women cant live peacfully, they are wired differently thats all. nothing wrong with one or another. The so called love, romance is illusion. It does not last in real world. So the new trend in west is yoga, meditation, spirituality which helps u look for real love & peace thats within us.
RE:This is a docs forum...
by sanchita datta on Apr 05, 2008 01:21 AM Permalink
One dsnt have to live in the west to follow something which originated in our land.Some people also believe that the attainment of the ultimate love and peace is also an illusion,u can only achieve it by living peacefully in society,being part of family,marriage,parenthood. I guess its basically what the individual wants and how he wants.But in my opinion its wrong to state as a fact tht love and romance are only ILLUSIONS...wht might be sour for u might be very sweet for somebody else.(pls dont say tht I have a mushy point of view)
Men and women are meant to love, romance each other the way our movies, media has taught us. Both are made differently. men wants sex and whatever he does to a woman, just for the same purpose. Women want to romanced like a queen. Even sex she has only to get that feeling. Now how can 2 so opposite human live peacefully. Its impossible. Thats why marriage is now looked as bigest fruad. It does not work. Only way it last in india because of immense society pressure. Thats why west is moving more towards spirituality, chintan, manan, dhaan. So u can find the love within you. not be dependent on man or woman because thats nothing but more misery.
1.Men are also more likely to arrested on false dowry and false domestice violence cases. (94% of cases reported have been proven false)
2.Men are also more likely to lose more than 50% of money on divorce,
3.If a man slaps a woman it is sexual harassment or domestic violence, but if a woman slaps a man then she is doing it for her protection (what a hypocrisy!)
Because many people from Asia want boys and not girls they end up aborting girl foetus thus increasing number of males who dont get enough females to partner with.
A skewed male:female ratio gives more choice to women and less to men, thus unknowingly the people who favor boys over girls are causing grief to men and risking the future of mankind.
thats true.. we r like slaves.. and if we bark for our rights, we will b put into prison.. these laws r breaking men.. media is anti-male.. now we r tired and useless .. kill all men in india and then they will b happy...
RE:indian men living life worser than dog
by Hum Raj kumar hain on Apr 04, 2008 07:58 PM Permalink
Dont ever think of marriage...Man gains nothing from marriage,woman gains everything.
..because men are subjected to more stresses of career and job life. Women might claim otherwise, but most women who are working, treat their husbands as their back ups. And women who don't work will not have job stresses. But men have greater stress because they are the main financial contributors to the family. No wonder men live shorter.
RE:Men live shorter than women...
by Vijay saxena on Apr 04, 2008 02:37 PM Permalink
women are more likely to learn by mistakes they commit but they pretend to b very wise they all hv is desires and passion for fulfilment without efforts, but now a days men hv more patience compared to women
I am more or less convinced that what many women want is really money. I have seen cases where the husband has a big pot-belly and very rich and the wife is pretty beautiful, but married him becoz of money. Guys, if you have money, u can get beautiful gals, even if you have a big-sized pot belly.
RE:What women want
by aus ant on Apr 04, 2008 02:59 PM Permalink
That may be 'cos of the misconception that women have that 'bigger the belly, bigger the pot of money'. Hence the term 'pot belly'!
RE:What women want
by Hawk Hawkeye on Apr 04, 2008 06:07 PM Permalink
Looking at his comments it seems he's more intrested in the Pot Belly rather than a GF. Sooooo GAYYYYY
