Its a very big loss for the family and the grief will continue forever as one cannot forget lost loved ones.The lost is very painful and many people lives are shattered for no fault of theirs.The police deppt provided sufficient funds and the job offer was the right choice for family members.Why is the wife not accepting the job offer.Her children are small but that is no excuse to turn down the offer.Many people would die to get a job offer as one does not have to spend money to bribe and buy the job.It does not matter if the post is of a clerk.It seems the wife does not need the job.The poor parents of the departed soul is suffering due to her actions.If she does not need the compensation why is she holding on.The amount should be shared between them.Its their son,a life they created and bore and they have every right to the compensation.Jayshree does not want to be with them and choose to move away and live seperately which is a very clear indication that she does not like them.Life is very very precious and complicated and what you do unto others will always come back to you and there is no escape when the time comes without warning.The poor lady(Jayshree) will go through worse situiation when her children grow up.There are so many wicked people in this country.Life is so much more peaceful and beautiful when the concience is clear.The people responsible for that horrible blast should be trated the same way.Lock them in a old train compartment and blow them up.No one has
RE:why fight
by Satyendra Dubey on Jul 12, 2007 06:17 PM Permalink
Hi JaM U are Right , she seems to be cunning & clever person....she has come across a Grief does not mean that she shud be offered help TILL HER APPEASEMENT.....she did not accepted job even when officers tried to persuade her....and even give 6 months leave....She shud have humbly accepted the Job and THANKED POLICE DEPT AND INDIAN TAX PAYING PEOPLE for the offered help , instead of being STUBBORN...
RE:why fight
by Mohammeds Patrawala on Jul 12, 2007 07:51 PM Permalink
PLS DONT DIVERT THE DISCUSSION. HERE IT IS HUMANITARIAN. MAIN THING IS THAT THESE AND OTHER PEOPLE, COUNTRY AS A WHOLE SUFFERED TREMENDOUSLY BECOZ OF THIS INHUMAN BOMB-BLASTING AND THAT HAS TO BE CRITIZED STRONGESTLY. SUCH POLARISATION CREATES AN IMPRESSION OF SUPPORT.
RE:RE:why fight
by Raju Dalit on Jul 12, 2007 08:54 PM Permalink
HELLO MY BROTHERS. HOW PAYS THE MOST TAX, AND WHO IS INVOLVED IN SMUGGLING AVOIDING PAYING TAX??? SEE THE PERCENTAGE.
This is Over Sympathy , over the night these young widows getting huge Sums from Railways & Police.....Plus they are demanding Job.....and Yes they ARE NOW FEELING Humiliated in class D jobs...what do they expect Additional SP????
OVER SYMPATHY MUST NOT be shown for Such Victims....Monetary compensation is OK but Policies & Guidelines must not be flouted in giving job to UNSUITABLE candidates , as HE/SHE will be Incompetant
RE:This is Over Sympathy
by Satyendra Dubey on Jul 12, 2007 06:05 PM Permalink
Foolish Dutta So u are also not happy with her being offered class D job... so she shud be made Addtnl.SP according to you...YOU ARE VERY GENEROUS
RE:RE:This is Over Sympathy
by Satyendra Dubey on Jul 12, 2007 06:05 PM Permalink
Foolish Ponga Pundit So u are also not happy with her being offered class D job... so she shud be made Addtnl.SP according to you...YOU ARE VERY GENEROUS
It was no different in the case of the widows of Kargil soldiers who died in the battlefield. Overnight, their widows (many of them young) received large amount of money. All of them left their in laws. With plenty of money at their disposal, it was not difficult to get remarried and start a new life with a bang. Old parents of such soldiers were left uncared for. Many of them were dependent on their son at their old age. They are now in penury. Daughter-in-law walked away with money and her children. Frnakly speaking, I do not know what is the solution for it.
RE:YOUNG RICH WIDOW vs. POOR PLD IN-LAWS
by Abdullah Saikh on Jul 12, 2007 04:08 PM Permalink
It's really very sad storry but "honi ko kaun tal sakte hai"??? I again condemn for 11/7 !!
RE:YOUNG RICH WIDOW vs. POOR PLD IN-LAWS
by Satyendra Dubey on Jul 12, 2007 04:20 PM Permalink
Sudeep You are right , this is OVER SYMPATHY...they can very well keep life on tracks with compensation & Remarriage..
RE:YOUNG RICH WIDOW vs. POOR PLD IN-LAWS
by S Narain on Jul 12, 2007 04:16 PM Permalink
Society with no values is going to lead us nowhere!!!! Most of the daughter inlaws are the product of present generation ,who care a hoot for their inlaws. Does our society care for good fellows!!! Our society is getting perverted with no respect for any individual doing good to society.
It is sad to read the above case ... about the cop killed in the Bomb Blast and the upheaval in the family after wards.
While I have started a campaign, to try and disciplie the Police Force in Mumbai ... I must say the police have a very tough job and sometimes they are required to work 48 hours at a stretch, just getting a few winks at the police station on a narrow bench... The paper work involved in any case is massive.
Are all the Cops corrupt? For minor corruptions almost 99 % can be called guilty ... but considering their pay scales, what else can you expect.
About major transgressions, like arresting a innocent person and extorting money from the family (like in my case) I feel not more that 10% are that kind of corrupt ... But these 10% are most powerful and give police a bad name ... but the 90% cops, who I would call "decent", are compelled to back the rogue cops ... therein lies the problem.
What we require is a strong peoples movement to take on the arrogant, corrupt Government officials and politicians, Rogues in the Police force and the Judiciary... JOIN IN NOW. CITIZENS POLICING THE CORRUPT AND POLICE IS A MUST TODAY.
