Article is promoting the idea of "Spending more time at home" but with the appreciating rupee that seems to be a distant dream. Companies are talking of increasing productivity(read increase the number of work hours to 10 hrs!!) with stalwarts like NRN endorsing it!!!! Those who marry...my best wishes are with you!!!
RE:Spending more time at home???
by Vineesh Vedsen on Aug 02, 2007 03:48 PM Permalink
It seems only people in Bangalore work in IT in India. Let us not blame an industry or profession for personal incompetence. No other city but Bangalore complains of impotency. So it seems it is the problem of people rather than the industry.
In the It field, everything is in plenty... Salary, Work load, facilities at work place, stress, peer competition... the real problem is people are not getting enough time for family and socialising.. This has resulted in extra ....affairs at work places and breakiing-up of families. Also, women have become self reliant earning fact salaries... this also puts a lot of strain in the family affair..
Its is sheraly depend upon the willingness and upbringing of the person to priortise the events and happening in the life . Lack of braoder prospect of life and basic ethics to live life are missing in young carrier oriented women which definately takes them way to divorce . In addition to that antidowery acts like 498A allows them to make money through settlemment .. These Divorces are nothing to do with IT Boom in Banglore ...It is more of Ego and extreme ambitious or carrer persuing attitude of young girls ...
RE:GIVE ME A SUGGESTION...........................................................................
by DolphinMTNL on Aug 02, 2007 03:50 PM Permalink
Abe yede .... akal ke kachhe idhar logo ke divorice kaise kam kiye jaa sakte hai uska serious discussion chalu hai ..... aur tereko train ki padi hai??? Stay away from here if u cant contribute atleast dont waste others time.
I think the best solution would be to allow people to work from home and have them attend the office 1-2 days a week. This will greatly solve the problem i beleive.
RE:work from home
by anil on Aug 02, 2007 11:22 PM Permalink
later ( after 1 year )they can say productivity has increased and show the results and ask for raise
RE:work from home
by mobydick on Aug 02, 2007 04:10 PM Permalink
Why Vicky yaar n all u people yaar why make lot of fuss abt all these things, just get a grip don't disturb others .... that's d funda yaar
RE:work from home
by Prashanth AM on Aug 02, 2007 03:47 PM Permalink
Lakshmi mam i guess u r new to IT field so you are speaking like this. Do u really think company will allow u to work from home for 3-4 days a week. Fact is that, an employee works in office during normal hours and then work from home till late night....
RE:work from home
by mobydick on Aug 02, 2007 03:58 PM Permalink
better than this wud b 2 work only 1-2 days a week and have total absolute off for the rest of the week, means to exclude homework
RE:work from home
by Gajanan Raikar on Aug 02, 2007 03:51 PM Permalink
then there will be Population problem. I think the divorces are increasing becasue the differences in the attitudes, If both are career orineted, this i going to happen, there is no stop for that. Atleast now people are trying to live for themselves instead compromising with life.
This phenomenon of more couples wanting separation is not confined to IT sector alone. The principal reason is that the girls of the present era are finding themselves independant with finacial security. It is then obvious that they strive for a life better than what the girls of yester era had. No more are they willing to accept lesser attention from their partners. In comparison, the girls of previous era silently suffered.
The issue is not different to the husband and wife working as doctors, not finding time to warm each others. Even in medical fields too cases of separation are significant. IT is relatively a new field and suddenly attracing such hypothesis in new colours.
RE:This is inevitable
by Lakshmi P on Aug 02, 2007 03:51 PM Permalink
So u agree that guys really are a torture to their wifes. They do not give them peace of living due to which they are going in for divorces !@!!!
RE:This is inevitable
by shrikant hegde on Aug 02, 2007 05:16 PM Permalink
Yes, I agree to a degree that some girls suffered in the hands of their partners in the yester year. Some Boys too suffered in the hands of a girl. Yet, the divorce was never an alternative. In the current times, however, both girls and boys are suffering mentally for one or the other reasons, quite predominantly due to the other partner being relatively less passionate or not understanding.
RE:This is inevitable
by anil on Aug 02, 2007 11:26 PM Permalink
no i think yeateryears they believed in marriages should be from beginning till end nowadays its end to begin
i think whether it's IT or any other profession the work culture is to be blamed.a rule should be imposed no work after office hrs and see the situation will change automatically.One person starts woking late hrs and then others are compelled to sit late.in short this IT culture has spoiled the whole enviorn lae hrs working no family life and inflation because these people can afford other ppl have to suffer
RE:THINK OUT OF THE ...BOX
by navneet bajaj on Aug 02, 2007 03:42 PM Permalink
gr8 thought there....husband and wife can enjoy in the company itself....
RE:RE:THINK OUT OF THE ...BOX
by kumar on Aug 04, 2007 01:20 PM Permalink
how about opening up the firewall to access porno sites ....bet that would help a lot to bored men
