I read comments on this page. I would say, if man marries IT girl from bangalore, his life will become very worst and no use of marrying bangalore girl. Just forget your life after marriage.This is my personal experience even I am also from IT, bangalore. I realise it now. First thing is their attitude, moral, ready for divorce anytime, ego and way of spending, having many boyfriends. These all will not lead a good family life. I would recommend for men please please please don't marry a bangalore girl and also especially from IT/ITES backaground if you really care about your family life. bangalorean girls are just dangerous devils. no use for family life. this will happen for most men. If you don't trust me, just wait and experience the pain. Just forget IT woman for marriage. Let them lead a bacheloress life for their whole life. we should not disturb them.
By Suffering bangalore husband from dangerous devil wife from bangalore
The important thing is each person should know when to call it a day at the end of each working day and decide in life what your priorities are. Work will never end, it is always there, you should know when to say enough and get up to go home.
The real reason for all these is false ego. Either in case of arranged marriage or Love marraige one shows his/her flase property ( Ardha) by presenting costly gifts and much devoted time(Kama).
After some time, this is replaced with false ego making a point that I am sacrificing for family . Slowly it turns into disaster.
If any couple fails to notice importance of connection with god , devotion ( Moksha) this is obvious.
So on a weekend not only go to restaurents, amusement parks also do visit temples, churches, mosques...and spend time there together. This positive energy works on you to bond together for long time and happy life.
RE:The rising divorce rate in the IT sector
by Mahesh Patil on Jan 10, 2008 05:57 PM Permalink
No definitely not, i dont think it will work out. With the pressure people again tend to sit in front of the work or either they do not concentrate on work. Work should be at work place and it should be definitely between NORMAL working hours.
RE:The rising divorce rate in the IT sector
by Mahesh Patil on Jan 10, 2008 05:58 PM Permalink
No definitely not, i dont think it will work out. With the pressure people again tend to sit in front of the work or either they do not concentrate on work. Work should be at work place and it should be definitely between NORMAL working hours.
Re: Service to the poor
by MMK Rao on Jun 20, 2009 03:20 PM Permalink
These couples most often dont have any sense of the consequnces of their actions during their pre-marriage years. At college and during work, before marrying, they have it easy, outing with boys, often indulging in premarital aberrant conduct which will leave its imprint on their married life. Work related pressures can and should be solved with a mutually considerte approach by employees and bosses concerned. But they are NOT the reason for breakup of marriage. Strong cultural values have hitherto been imbibed by young people as part of their lives with their parents, but due to the evil influences of 24 7 x 100 TV and third rate film videos, downright porn stuff, and sex chats on the internet, these great tradit ional values, which as of today shine out in the form of good youth even while working abroad, have been damaged too badly. Much seems to be blindly imported purely due to commercial greed of advertising and publishing industries in India.
RE:in-laws interfearence a nightmare to girls marriage.
by Indian on Sep 07, 2007 10:44 PM Permalink
And wat abt the boy's mother who makes the girls life hell ater marriage? Its tit for tat now, boy's father in law for the boy, and girl's mom in law for the girl. So both are on same page now!
Marriages are made in heaven, but broken in earth.
It is very sad to find so many divorce cases.
One has to balance work and family properly in order to maintain stability. Both husband and wife should have better understanding and a common vision in order to avoid such divorces.
RE:Marriage
by S Anto on Sep 08, 2007 02:48 PM Permalink
lalitha , wat idea u have suggested is very nice.but the point is people those are in IT can not practice these ideas.so evetually div
RE:RE:Marriage
by S Anto on Sep 08, 2007 02:50 PM Permalink
so its better for gals to avoid IT guys while planning for marriage,if the dont want to go for divorce later
