RE:Love Marriages are big adjustment
by raghavendra on Jun 10, 2006 12:49 PM Permalink
i totally agree wit u ajay, girls, especially from brahmin caste run behind wrong boys. i blame it on parents b'coz they teach only good things of society, and they show blind love to daughters.
RE:Love Marriages are big adjustment
by kripa on Jun 10, 2006 12:22 AM Permalink
hello mr.ajay yes i agree its difficult to find love marriages gettin succesful, but its same wid arranged marriages as well. d reason is fast life, greed for money, lack of trust, n not looking after each other. most imp-TAKING EACH OTHER FOR GRANTED. D relation shld be handled by both n not jus one.Marriages are like plants, v need to give water regularly to let it live forever..
there is no value for love marriage today. tradition people will not accept this any time.. today most of the stupid brahmin girls ran away with gundas, terrorists and other notorious people. They are having love with only these people purposely by rejecting good innocent boys within their caste. then what about real love people? they are simply hurted by these stupid girls. why they are not understanding the real love of decent and innocent people but they are only having love with above mentioned notorious one. are they doing purposely?, where is good understanding love marriage today?
Well I thing Love marriage is great if you found the lover is the girl, you been waiting all long your life. Adding ice on cake if this love gets the family approval then I wud say no matter how many hicups you find on ur life... Your life would be sweet as deshi ghee sweets.
Very true it is not whether a marriage is out of love or love out of marriage it is all about agreeing to disagree with love and respect for each other without ego or weighing as to who is gives in most of the time, it is all abt being friends in thick and thin:)
Love marriage.........
by Chaitanya Konduru on Jun 13, 2006 05:56 PM Permalink
I think Mr.Mahesh has minunderstood all d gals. I agree that there are some girls who behave in that manner as mentioned by Mr.Mahesh. But it should not be a generalized statement on all gals/women. There are lots of good gals out there......only thing is "we should come out of our world and see whats happening around"!!! Coming to Love or Arrange Marriage......as a guy n as a lover I strictly feel that "Irrespective of the kind of marriage (love or arranged).......if we follow Give n Take kind of adjustment... then..life will b smoother in future than it seems to be today!! If we guys adjust in onething.....then gals shud adjust in the other.....then HEAVEN can be seen....sorry not seen...felt!!! Thanks!!!!
LOVE & Marriage should co exist.IF there is love, you try and forgive. LOVE goes on.Accept failures, use sorry at times.Say "Good Work" sometimes,you are learning to LOVE.Sacrifice something for LOVE.You can afford it.
RE:love marriage
by vijay sachan on Jun 10, 2006 09:17 AM Permalink
Will you mind your tongue. Do not blame all the girls for what ever happened in your life. problem with people like you is you guys are always prejudiced and thats why you see all things in life with a prejudiced angle. Grow up and open your eyes
wrong perspective of girls
by kripa on Jun 10, 2006 12:13 AM Permalink
Mr.Mahesh i think u have mistaken. this is not true tat all girls are bad. u cant generalise a statement jus cos of any bad exp u had(i think).n who said tat girls hurt their parents, doesnt follow rituals n traditions. open ur eyes n look u ll find many girls who sacrificed their love for parents. i have seen n heard of so many girls who have done so. y jus love many girls arnd sacrifice their identity, life, desires once they get married, an arrange marriage too. u jus cant blame one person esp a girl or a woman for failure of a reln. even men are at a fault, they aren't perfect.
Its not forceful adjustment, Its mutual and happy understanding\adjustment) because you are living for the person whom you love the most and you doing what you called as adjustment that gives you happiness as you are more happy in living life with adjustments but important is you beloved is with you in every good as well as worst conditions.
