The decision taken by the honourable court has really opened a new chapter.This will help the society to maintain balance.Men can also have problems and their problems should also be adressed properly.Our society is highly inclined to give support to women whatever the real situatiom may be.We try to show our bigger heart by always coming to the support of women.And in this process neglect another important part of society that is men.
RE:Maintenance for husbands?
by JDSCP on Nov 21, 2005 04:02 PM Permalink
I agree with u 100%; If it has gone to such extent of divorce, then it is not fair for one of them to live on someone elses money.
I dont think anyone should be eligible for maintenance unless they are physically underprivileged. Everyone should take care of themselves and be independent.
RE:Compensation for husband
by Sri on Nov 21, 2005 04:07 PM Permalink
This is very good decision taken by court. as now a days both are equal. by any chance he is not in a position to earn, and she needs divorce they what is the problem in paying him. as long as now both are equal and wife can not say it is because of his in ability to earn and that is the reason for divorce.
RE:Compensation for husband
by guess on Nov 21, 2005 05:06 PM Permalink
how can u be so sure that it is only men who are responsible, 60% of wife's in india flirt, when their husbands are working in office, they try to control their salary and spen like anything, when the husband reaches home he faces much more trouble then he faces in office, how do u think india has Emerged so strongly in various sectors?? it because they simply don't want to go home, they prefer staying in office then going home.
RE:Compensation for husband
by everisto on Nov 21, 2005 04:52 PM Permalink
i diagree when u say men are not capable...u mean all these years u clap with one hand, what an acheivement u women have acheived
When a man is unable to maintain his wife and his family, only then his wife seeks divorce from him even if she is earning well to sustain the family.
After divorce I don't think so that men are eligible for any kid of compensation as it is due their own inability that this situation of divorce has arisen.
RE:No maintenance for men
by Mridula S on Nov 21, 2005 05:26 PM Permalink
You are right girls/women only marry to a person with lot of money...when the money finishes she finds a new lover because she believes that her husband should give him lot of money. Once the money is over the love of women is over and she wants divorce to get hold of another rich guy.....well done.....keep it up.
RE:No maintenance for men
by Gaurav on Nov 21, 2005 04:57 PM Permalink
Madam, why are you thinking biasly, may only due to you beig a women. if a husband does not deserve for maintenace from his divorced wife then why should wife deserve maintenace from her divorced husband. i think you are littile bit bias this time thnik twice what i want to say. it is only my HUMBLE request.
RE:No maintenance for men
by SmartFool on Nov 21, 2005 04:49 PM Permalink
Irrespective of who seeks divorce for whatever reasons, if an woman can get compensation so can a man. when you women folks talk about equality, it should be everywhere....
RE:No maintenance for men
by Subash on Nov 21, 2005 06:54 PM Permalink
Hi, Some men do take divorce due to the inability of their wives in taking care of the family. Then why should men pay compensation? Most of women talk of equality to get, and not to give, why? Men and Women basically are human beings. In this view both are equal. So the rules which are applicable to men are applicable to women in the same aspect. The court verdict is very welcome, particularly to some men who are not earning due to some inability. When a man can take care of a women by earning, why cant a women do the same? Many women consider their earnings as their personel income. This is not a welcome growth in the society. Instead of fighting with the spouse for their in-capability, both men and women should learn to accept their partners as they are. 0.5 + 0.5 = 1 1.0 + 0.0 is also 1.
Its is for us to choose which calculation we should choose with our partner.