I just want to mention here about mehar. Actually mehar is "the money paid by the groom to the bride" but not to the parents. If parents of bride took some money from groom then it will not at all come under the mehar. And another point to be noted is, its girls wish to spend that money as per her wish. Either she can give it to her parents or any charity or to any person on earth BUT SHE CANNOT SPEND IT ON HER HUSBAND.
I hope, next time you will be more clear about your statements regarding like this basic issues. I wondered how come you did mistake regarding this basic issue. Any how, its my duty to correct you as you allowed me through this news report.
Thank you and thank you rediff.com(since 8 years i am the regular browser of rediff).
when will poverty come to an end in this country and how.
the govt must launch the following schemes to bring poverty to an end: 1.Population stabilization programme 2.Expenditure tax to increase tax base 3widening the ambit of service tax 4massive crackdown on black money by any means 5tax to gdp ratio has to be widened the following measures need to be adopted to bring black marketers to book:
1 closure of all international flights for india nationals for a brief period 2announcement to change the currency notes and crackdown on bemani property and land deals 4freezing allthe bank lockers in the country and its inspection by govt authorities 5hiring of detctive agencies to unearth wealth statshed by indian nationals abroad
after these measures are implemented things will improve
It is a very unfortunate incident...as such people reading the news may be shocked...such a thing happening even after the Indian laws, relating to the muslim personal laws were revised.I would like to clarify here a point, "Meher" as mentioned in the article here, is NOT the money paid by the groom to the bride's family but the amount paid to the bride by the groom, at the time of marriage.This amount is personal for the use of the bride....she can use it for any purpose, throw it away, or waste it....even the gromm (ie her husband) has no right to question her about it.This is a right provided to the bride according to Islam.This money belongs to her and not to her parents.
at least he was trying to take the girl with him..he was not just trying to use her, i mean he cud have esily payed the girl's family to sleep with her and then leave .
see this trend of poor girls getting married to arabian countries has been a very old trend. but may i knw the reason why is such stuff carried on? correption or starvism in our country. may i request to shell out a small percentage of loads of money they have earned because of their powers. if this happens, everyone in our country hope to get educated rather than girls getting sold to other countries for money. my request is that the same topic should be taken seriously in the media. we should all make a plea to ourselves, rather than spending unneccesarily anywhere. the same money should be donated for a noble cause.
