I want to tell all that sex is an art and can be enjoyed provided male partener has better retentivity power than a girl partner.Before starting sex u need to have a foreplay with ur lady partner.In foreplay male partner should start with touch and kisses on different sensitive parts of ur lady partner.She should be made to response to your kisses and touch. After that both should embrace each other and male partner should start sucking to each and every sensitive part of lady partner.Sucking her private part or vagina is very essential before peneteration in vagina.the lady partner then should be given free hand to move her private part so that she could achieve the climax.It is the duty of male partner that her lady partner reaches to the level of climax,bcz lady to be given first preference.80/. of people who play sex game does not understand climax.So many understand that sex is a simple process i.e. penetration and ejaculation without caring the lady partner.U should know that lady partner is much more powerful in sex than a male partner.A lady is enshrined with LAJJA and very less talks about sex. Only she will talk when she come to know that her boy partner is competent enough to take care of her sexual desire. Sex is a good exercise provided u have a controlled ejaculation.Simply inserting into vagina and after some stroke getting ejaculated is not a complete sex. Sex should be played at least one hour and then u could appreciate it,otherwise it is a waste exercise.
Re: Sex is Art
by saraswathi ramachandran rama on Oct 04, 2008 09:52 PM Permalink
a man who does not care about woman's climax has a less than pleasurable sex life than one who does. Well written kanhaya,although long post.
Re: Sex is Art
by T R U Pillai on Oct 06, 2008 11:45 AM Permalink
whoa...one hour?...better make it half every night regulary?...one hour once a week?...u make it sound boring...
In sex, only aim to get satisfied and satisfy the partner. God has given different biology to male and female viz. male gets excited early and finishes early whereas a woman process is slow, steady and wait. But once both understand and know the technique - no problem. With the passage of time, Husband and wife understand each other well and can have best enjoyment.
Re: Sex
by aga on Oct 07, 2008 04:50 PM Permalink
If only wife gets excited, husband does not, only orally they can enjoy, which may not satisfy fully to the wife but again understanding plays a big role.
Yes I agree.Spouse should share thier fantasies with each other.this will not only enhance thier libidos,but also save thier married life,atleast they will be faithfull. There is nothing harm if mutually both partners agrees they can swap for their fulfillment of sexual fantay.
Re: Sharing fantasies with spouse.
by khatri triambak on Oct 03, 2008 05:14 PM Permalink
I am ready to swap with your spouse for fun pleasure.Will she be agree?
inexperienced guy in relationships and naturally am a virgin. Although many girls are attracted to me I tend to block them off if i find out if she has kissed another or had a bf.
Im at the point in my life where I really need someone and recently have been thinking that maybe I should just go to a prostitute to gain experience ever since the girl that I really liked got married. This will enable me to feel at par with other experienced girls and stop me blocking girls off . On the other hand the burden of culture and god is also on the back of my mind, any advise?
Re: sex
by saraswathi ramachandran rama on Oct 04, 2008 09:56 PM Permalink
those are old generation ideas.nature has designed body this way.No need to feel guilty man.And there is nothing wrong with being with an experienced girl.You may learn.Prostitution is risky.Firstly it is illegal.Secondly one can get deadly infections like AIDS and STDs.
ALL THRAKI OF INDIA GOT AN OPPORTUITY TO EXPRESS THEIR WEIRD THOUGHTS HERE.LOLZ. COME ON GUYS. HAVE A LIFE. MOST OF THEM ARE STILL LIVING IN THEIR OWN FOOLS PARADISE.
Marital relationship certainly gets strengthened through an open-minded sexual encounter. Physical union is a way of expressing your love and affection for the other partner. From thins angle, there should not be any harm in husband and wife sharing their wildest sexual fantassies. If a spouse (either husband or wife) wants to criticise the other's fantassy, the other should be open to such criticism. The physical acts in any case should be performed with the consent of both partners, for instance, some individuals may find oral sex very exciting while others may not find it so interesting. In my opinion, both husband as well as wife should openly demand fulfilment of their fantassies and intersts and enjoy the God's gift to the fullest extent. Giving pleasure to your partner multiplies your own pleasure many times.
