RE:sonia gandhi upa govt
by Bond on May 23, 2008 02:29 PM Permalink
why? we indians and especially rss has the habit of blaming sonia and upa govt for every bad incident.
RE:what is this..?
by Junglee on May 23, 2008 02:37 PM Permalink
Rememebr that, even if your wish is granted (which happens in most cases in the present days), the other lover can become jealous and you may meet the same fate as Gover.
too much of media exposure to childrens spoil their mind, the womens are projected with maximum glamour possible, people are redefining the meaning of beauty,
yes, it is very sad news for all, and nowadays these kind of activites are more common, guys and gals mating before marriage, even before 20 years, the more the culture gets westernized, the parents do loose the habit of inculcating good habits in their children, so heavy penalty has to be paid,
To-day's generation are of hi-tech in nature. No body has got time for leisure. Every one is attributed to one tension or other. Moreover, people are becoming more and more impatient, due to which they are not able to think in the right direction. The above incident is the result. We have n-number of debates, like the one that takesplace in NDTV, whenever such things happen. This is also due to our leniance in the judiciary system. Once the judiciary system is in place, this kind of incidents will automatically reduced.
One, its the sex ratio that has adverely affected the need of yong men looking for their mates - the future society is going to pay heavily for a collective negligence of this problem.
Two, reduction of restrictions or easy accessability amongst younger generations have created social problem of easy come easy go attitude and that so about relationships. With no fall back to take off personal frustrations, the gexX is taking to violent means to settle their differences justified by movies and media coverage of the violence in the society.
There cannot be love without possessiveness nor jealousy.if there is then it is by certain that the person dosent care or is bottling it up inside.
but yes over jealously or possesiveness is bad and is the fault of not the one who is jealous but his/her partner.
we should ensure that our partners dont go through these emotions by constantly communicating with them. only genuine communication can lead to true love
RE:partly justified
by abcdabcd on May 23, 2008 02:19 PM Permalink
Sweet... very sweet... The girl is also to be blamed equally for the guy's jealousy.
RE:partly justified
by aravind s on May 23, 2008 02:57 PM Permalink
If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheats ,better ignore him/her once and for all.Definitely because of posessiveness , there will be heartaches .But its wise to shrug these things off and concentrate on worthwhile which brings success.Nothing succeeds like success.You we successful,wealthy,a bit famous then there will be a lot of love.
RE:partly justified
by Arthur on May 23, 2008 02:14 PM Permalink
the best post abt the topic i have read for long time.. the essence of a relationship lies in genuine communication. think a guy or gal becomes possessive due to the way he or she is being communicated about anything else related with his/her partner. thanks merw mathew for the wonderful thought..
