A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
RE:Art of Marriage
by Anita on Feb 11, 2008 12:29 AM Permalink
The key to marriage is lots of sex, communication and ensuring that you both listen to eachother. The other key is compromise!
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If the main earner keeps quite for anything and everything any marriage will work. No questions asked and expectations,no bossing over, no compalints that is the objectives for marriage to work, Applicable to both. Or one should be a low key partned. That will wrok very Well
RE:Silence
by krishna tripathi on Feb 07, 2008 03:35 PM Permalink
u want to say marriages are always broken because of "main earner"? crap...what if the "no earner" constantly keeps nagging about small things? here also the main earner should be quite? nice joke friend..touch ur wife's feet daily and ur marriage will never break. promise...
We have seen a lot of couples are not happy , Have you ever find out the reason? i did...the same conclusion has given above article.
As my conclusion...
First priority...Enough Money to run a family and wife needs...most of the problem would be solved... 2) dont incult spouse infornt of others 3) Say " I lOVE YOU" twice a day..early morning and late night whether you have liking or disliking.. 4) Kiss her while sleeping (whether you are liking or dislikeing)
As bagvadgita told...what r u saying/think,you will be changed what do u think/told....
Wish you happy & great Marriged Life...
one more thing...Wife Is Life..if you love your wife...wild wife will changed to Love Life..W to L
RE:SuccessFull Marriage!!!
by krishna tripathi on Feb 07, 2008 03:32 PM Permalink
ohh common...only u can do this. kiss ur wife irrespective of what she does. ofcourse ur marriage will not break this way. but this is not a successful marriage either. and u say this is love?? no..this is sheer "need"..biwi ke pair chuo aur khush raho...yahi kehna chahte ho na...??
this is very imp aspect which ruins life if you think thatu cant compromise dont indulge in relation just roam and enjoy. But if you are serious about a relation you have to get down from ur stance. My experience shows that never disclose past, never lose temper Look for Horoscope match understand and be understood communicate well
RE:marriage
by Gautam Sinha on Feb 07, 2008 07:49 PM Permalink
No matter what you do if you ignore the unwritten rule you invite doom - the wife is always right.
My friend who was getting married told me that he can make compromises on almost everything except for a very few matters that he holds very dear to his heart. I told him that if he wanted his marriage to be successful he should make compromises on those very matters which he thinks are impossible for compromise.
