abhay yeh clearly bata ,main ladka hoon aur mera best friend sab ladke hain,,mein kaise un se shaadi karoon yaar,,,kya sawaal pooch raha hai ye?lol,,,,woh kya hain naa,,main zara hoshyar hoon isi liye,,dont mind ok....
Well,its certainly a good idea to marry your the best friend. The reason behind is that you know the he or she thoroghly and there is always a understanding between the two. In my opinion both should behave as the best friend even after marriage which will flourish the love, bonding and overall sense of being togetherness.Both should understand the feelings as being the best friend. So that life will sail smoothly.
I have married my Best Friend.And its been a Blessing.You know the in and out of the relation before u are married and hence you can work out things for betterment of the Relation. Ofcourse since we are humans we do tend to go haywire at times but the Best thing to a succesful marriage is Understanding. Understanding is the Key.It doesnt matter if your marriage is a Love or arranged ,it is upto the individuals to make sure to work it out.But as i said marrying your Best friend is simply awesome and the Bonding also becomes more stronger as the days go on.It has all the spice and energy which other marriages dont have. So love your Wife King size.
Marrying ur Best friend has both pros & cons. The best thing about marrying ur best friend is that u know about his likes & dislikes, that led to less fights.
the main drawback is ur expectations from that person r really high and in some cases u must find that he or she was better as friend than as a husband or wife and that really leads to lot of fight at home.
RE:I have married my Best Friend
by Debashish Das on Apr 16, 2008 09:59 AM Permalink
But there is no suspense then ! which life has stored for us and can't enjoy other taste of life..
RE:I have married my Best Friend
by anchal on Apr 16, 2008 01:32 PM Permalink
No its not true a person is really diffrent as a friend & as a husband/wife.
Certainly so! The reason being that through this relationship, you enter in to a long lasting bonding with some one you admire, love, care and crave for. Every bit of life becomes enjoyable because you are in the proximity of that person who matters the most for you. Mutual respect, love and commitment flourishes & attains greater heights over a period of time and there a sense of direction in life.
yeah ! getting married to one of your best friend will definitely end up in a successful marriage. loads of understanding and love does the trick. and best of all is the happiness and satisfaction you get as time goes by
i think yes... it would be easy to handle the relationship because there's already a foundation of love and trust. but in my life i did nt choose to marry my bestfriend bec. the first that i felt is shame ..shame of taking advantage our closeness but until now im in love with him it's been 10 yrs. already that elapsed now he has already 2 children and happily married and me still single... we have constant communication but not seeing each other. but we are happy now accepting the reality...