This is really a good question to me? But I would like to tell you one incident that Happend to my friend. One night his mom-dad had a fight an they seperated. after that when the boy went to his father and asked for the help, he refuded and asked him that who he is and wht is the relation between him and the boy.
Now you tell me was it a question that a dad should ask his son/ daughter? How can I say after this incident that Dads are Important....
papa where r u . I still need u . You were my top gun . Why u had to leave . today i am too am a papa but still i miss u the most . Lov your parents as you never get them again .
He is my idol for rigidity, composure, etc. Never imposes or complains rather discusses/negotiates ensuring we understand. He is always there to warn and recommend. I can always look upto him and try to reach his achievements. Atleast I am happy to pay my respect to him and will always do...Thanks Dad for everything
It is difficult moment to express my love for my dad.His name was Pravin. Little pravin while growing up was the most notorious boy of his village.At an early age he had so many responsibilities, as he had lost his father.No sooner did he become a responsible student simultaneously working to support his mother and younger brother though they had one elder brother too who had shunned his responsibilities.This little Pravin grew up being a responsible student and completed his studies. HE used to eat glucose biscuits once in a day so that his younger brother could eat a full dish having roti, sabji, dal and rice.He did everything for all in his family. For sister, brothers, mother and my mother and us whom he called - three angels.[ v r three sisters].Throughout hislifetime he had done great things for small people. He would call it Small things done with great hearts.May that was in form of money, emotional support, physical support or anything else.One day he could reach at the top most positions but no sooner in some years he got a deadly disease n he suffered a lot from it. Bt soon he would come up n out of ill-health, bt it was so deadly that it almost took him apart from us.My last with him he gave me a surprise gift asif he would never be able to do it again in life.It was such a gesture which really made me feel surprised.It is immmemorable moment spent with him.We sisters always used to fight with each other that he loves us more.One of us would say that he loves me m
My Dad has been my support through out my life. Like all daughters I am also close to my father. He is a strict disciplinarian through out his life. His day starts from morning 4:30 with yoga, walking and gym routine. He has been following this for good old 30 years. He is a man of prim and proper.A place for everything and everything in its place is his slogan.After my marriage, if people envy the way my house is, that's because I am his ardent follower.He has supported me in my studies,my personal failures. His perseverence and patitence are other virtues.Be it any task (I have seen his perseverence in thick and thin of finances while we built our house, managing studies of mine, my brother's and sister's) he is determined to acheive it. When the going gets tough, tough gets going.He is a live example for that saying.He has uplifted our whole family, got his brothers and sisters married, tackled their professional problems and is the most respected individual in our family circle. And he deserves that.Of course, my mom was a pillar of strength in his ventures. today me and my brother are successful engineers and my sister is a doctor.All because of his selfless sacrifice. This cannot be compensated in any ways.This is just a glimpse of my dad.Wish I could have my parents in my next janma too.
contd...... 6. Dont be impulsive, short tempered, be patience and you WILL WIN, as patience is bigger than the ocean. (Porumai kadalinum peridhu in Tamil)
Me and my sisters though married with kids etc, and my surviving mother, even today, any decisioon we need to take, we discuss like, if we put forward to father, what his decision will be, we take that, as he was very concern about, does the decision affects others. Well, no matter what gain or loss, we would have decided what my father would have approved. Because as children, we know what our mum and dad like us us to do.
Hope this may help readers to pick some useful hints of life, as father's are silent performers for upbringing of children. But for his and my Mum;s inspiration, I am not what I am today.
Best Regards,
N. Rajendran, ME, MBA, FIE. Executive Director Dubai, UAE. E-Mail: rajnidihe@yahoo.com
My late father advised me and my sisters with very valuable advise, which we follow even in his absence.
1. All living things needs to be respected, bei it whatever be their level, low or high. 2. When I was 10 years old, I called one of the labour in a singular form the way my father called him. He literally made me cry inspite of my mum saying to leave me and made me to apologise in front of more than 100 labours working in the paddy field that day and said to my mum, if he doesnt learn to respect people now, when he will learn?. So, even today that incident is in front of my eyes, so I respect 100%, even a person is low salaried category to the top most person. This attitude gets you close to the people. 3. Never treat or even think within you, bad for your worst enemy also, as he or she didnt become enemy by birth, but due to circumstances, they become. The moment they know your good intention, they will feel sorry and get close to you. 4. Help others if you can, but dont give them trouble, and leave them alone, which is a great help. 5. when going for exams, always go with smartly dressed and clean clothes, so that when you are thinking about your answer, if your focus falls on the student before you and he or she happen to wear smart dress, you will tend to divert the attention, so you need to be more positive and be confidence of yourselr with highest esteem, so that you perform better.
6. Dont be impulsive, short tempered, be patience and you WILL WIN, a
He is always with me whenever I need him. I still remember that day when he was standing with me in a long queue for making my driving license. At the time of my admission in my college he was with me to suggest me what should I do. He has given me everything whatever is expected from a father. My father is a great and a nice man. He is the one who has shown me the right way of life by holding my hand.
My Father in law a nice and a simple man who has given me everything by giving the hand of his beautiful and kind hearted daughter. Thanks to u dad.
RE:My father moulded our life
by Raj on Jun 17, 2007 03:32 PM Permalink
dear chandru, u can send as separate message as contd........... and send like the way i have done. well its a good feeling to openly express to others you see.
