WHAT'S THIS? Attempt to renew a debate, which is basically a personal choice.......... whether one is happy with it or after it ......... or end in picking up pieces.......... The first message in this debate is 31st July 2006...... Five months later the topic is raised again
I strongly agree with Sarah that sex is not merely an act, it comes out of love between two individuals. Its good to see that sarah has sticked on to her convictions and not getting influenced by her friends ideas.It can be seen that immoral conduct will not accepted even in nature which is seen by the rise in the number cases of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases.
On Ripley's Believe it or Not they showed statistics that in America people are getting married much later than the people all over the world at the same time the Divorce rates were the highest in Amercia compared to the rest of the world. But they further say that in Rural India people got married youngest in the world and the Divorce rates were also lowest in the world. A hundred years back most of our own Great grand parents got married on the on set of puberty if not earlier and so do all animals have sex on the onset of puberty. The western education puts pressure on all to study till our twenties then get jobs and settle down. By then todays generation is in their thirties. Then we are very choosy about our life partners as we have wasted / invested our early adolesence studying, working and settlling down. Once we get married and have sex with our partners. We may be compatible or not and then we have more sex either way and still are disilluisioned with the myth we carried all our adolesence. Then we realise that why dogs or other animals are happy and we are still chasing the myth called SEX. So some singles try it other stay away from it sooner or latter all realise it.
I am not sure what others think of the thoughts that you have penned or would rather not care a hoot for their views but I truly believe that sex without a relationship, trust & intimacy is definitely a BIG NO NO for me. If at all one indulges in one night stands etc, it would be quite lacklusture without an element of intimate relationship.
Based up on the interview by Sarah Ribak I feel that it has to be one's personal choice wheather to have sex before or after marraige. I personally don't mind having it before marriage but even if you get physical you should keep in mind that the girl does not get pregnent becoze that can cause problem for her. Otherwise there is no problem & you should always practice safe sex don't go to prostitutes. Becoze then cahnces of ngetting infected by HIV become more positive.
There r a whole lot of nonvegetarians who dont mind killing and eating (am one among them).And others who cant stand killing for eating... from a moralistic point of view may be killing is wrong... but then all of us exist. for people who cant feel kindness being non vegetrian is okay but for others its not... so is sex..if you have ifs and buts then yu should be in a monogamous relationship....otherwise its your choice...we kant keep comparing ourselves with animals like most of us do... we have evolved form them and whether we like it or not we will evolve further, by comparing ourselves with animals we will be only acting against evolution and hence nature. any ways whoever want to have heavenly sex let them have and whoever wants a steady relationship let them have too...we all get what we want.
In today's modern & advance world its every individuals different interest & view. According to me girls are more sensetive and emotions how modern.broad minded they can be but afte this act sex they feel wasted and dis carded. So every girl shoudl know what are they are doing before they dump themselves in anything
