Neither do I agree nor disagree with the author. Afterall, sex is a basic need of man. Why get into something as serious as marriage to do it?! Imagine getting married and then getting into the act just to find out that he/she is not good at it or not able to satisfy his/her partner. What a waste of life! In essence, it's just a matter of your mind. There's no right or wrong.
Good thinking, not too old fashioned and I endorse your thoughts. But "No sex please! Im single" also includes the numerous singles who are divorcees as well, who,for whatever reasons are unfortunate or fortunate in some cases and therefore single by virtue of that. Some traumatised by their marriage and happy to get out of it. Should we prevent them from having sex with someone they want to? I am sure there are quite a few of them who do not want to get into another marriage for the fear of yet another breakdown and therefore prefer to stay single. Why cant they enjoy sex with someone whom they seem to get along with or without a committment?. Where has marriage led them anyway? and why not sex if the two decide and love one another and provide each other with their individual needs??. I advocate strongly in their favour and feel that the biological needs in this case is purely upto the individuals concerned given his or her situation.
The excitement, the attraction , the deep intense feeling for the one u admire, those mesmorising memories at nights etc. missing.
Responsiblity, Children , education , marks, marriages, jobs, houses, property, daily metro travel is seen in this article. Although she is right at her place and we all have no other choice.
How many of us will marry with a girl already having sex with 1000 people.
dear Sarah Ribak, thanks so much for the article, and the clarity you have given to a lot to educate the youth and bring about a revelation in our minds. I wish and i wish if all parents get educated and are aware of this, so that the world will be a better place to live in , and if i can suggest its a command in the Bible in the "The ten commandments" Do not look at your neighbbours wife lustfully". it starts all with the very "lust for flesh" and if i can share, we can only overcome by dying to our flesh nature, in order to overcome the fall which we are likely to succumb to. Have known this coz of a very close friend(a lady) who has gone thru a difficult life when she got married when she was 19 to a man who was twice her age. Please keep encouraging the youngsters, so that we all be knowing the very essence of "life" in which we were created for. Not for men to abuse women , and for women to cheat man, Also we will have less problems in addressing Aids issues too. If a man has his wife and they both understand, why should men and women kepp looking at someother sources of "gratifying" the flesh. Thank YOu, God Bless You. Alfonso
there is nothing wrong...its a very personal choice...if u think, its right..its right...
remembering a dialogue from 'Notting Hill' as told by julia roberts ' what is so big deal about boobies, almost all female have them..y do u guys make such a fuss about it....i dont understand'
I totally agree with you to the extent that I felt it was just another hand(ie Urs) writing but the expressions were exactly what I felt and still believe in.
IT was amazing that two people could believe and voice out exactly the same things.
Im a hopeless romantic too and I know that when the act happens in my life I wana feel that not only did two bodies bcome one ..but Two SOULS!!
Very well written. I am happy there are people that think this way. This is one of the things I have never had an explanation for, but just believed. But you did a great job of putting it into words, as best as you could.
India has taken a lot of things from the US. Living here now for quite some time, I do feel that there could have been a lot of good things that could have been adopted but that has sadly not been the case.
My congrats to you. Perfect decision. I am a married man with two children living abroad and this is one of the decisions I took 15 years ago, well before my marriage and I never regret it. Sex and relationship goes hand in hand. Don't ever let anybody compare us with other animals afterall GOD only gave human beings the sixth sense. The sense to make decisions. We are not slaves of fate. We make or break our lives. Stick to your decision and you also will never regret it.
