Dear Ma'am, It was nice to know your viewpoints and opinion is quite right,( especially for the ladies as they are more sensitive)in my opinion. But I think Humans (people) as they have the freewill would not care so much, as it has happened for centuries. So surely it comes down to an individual's personal choice(We want freedom more than anything else)...anyways may you find your Prince Charming soooon and get married happily.
I totally agree with ur views on sex. We are not animals but intelligent ,emmotional & pschologically complex supremme creatures & cant have sex like animals.
If we have sex instinct like animals the world should still be like a primitive jungle filled with living ones but not human. this is union of two souls which shgould have a life bond & not for few minutes plesure.
I have waited for very long to see such a sensible article in Rediff. Congradulations to the author. You have put information in a most simple but elegant manner. Obsession to liberlism and so called progressive attitudes had, for long, sidelined moderates branding them conservatives or some other dumb looking name. You have clearly established in very few words that a resonale life is not so costly and also that it is a pragmatic approach.
I really liked the views aired by the author.Male and female view sex from very different points of view.For most men its a physical affair but for women its more emotional and mental than being physical.So such an act makes a much more impression on a woman's mind than a man.So i do agree to what the author says.Hats off to you.
It is the time, we come out of our shear hypocrisy and start accepting that sex before marriage a reality, we accept or not..
90 % of the guys and 50% of the girls, taste the hidden fruit by the time they get married, it is the time, we accept that sex before or without marriage is a reality
The article of yours has clearly blasted of the buzz word pre-maritial sex. It is in vogue. But we are not aware of the ill-effects it has. The comparison of man and other animals having sex is realistic and thought provoking.
This article is very well written and is meaningful. Not only for Indians living in India, but its quite helpful for the understanding of sexual encounters for Indians living/born abroad. Not having sex before marriage doesn't have to be based on religious aspects or other standards and values (which seems like a trap to many and they want to break it), it can be seen otherwise as well - like the psychological aspects of it and the consequences of having sex with someone you are not sure about or if you feel any kind of insecurity in the relationship. Furthermore, it has a lot to do with the upbringing of an individual, which has a great impact on our individual choices which forces us to think/be someone we never wanted to be. So on the other hand, you cant blame people who consider it very normal to have sex before marriage.
