yes, you are right, we are not dogs, we are choosy, and pricky. We are in a civilized world.We always love to be committed.57% percent of them have not supported premarital sex, great. But love to see more increase in percentage in the future.
I had read the views posted on Rediff relating to the subject by a user. I am in complete agreement with her views though that might amount to being branded as conservative or out of vogue.
I feel sex being a post marital activity and that too restricted to the wedding partner reflects a state of societal development. Humans before they attained their present state were also like any of the other creatures in matters of sex and life. But with our innate capability to think ahead and to evolve has what as resulted in our attaining the present ideology of sex.
Had it not been for this standard of development then we would be anything equivalent to the animals that we look down upon. Also, the society as it grew has thrown up a different sect of people who have pleasure giving as their profession. Where all people end up doing the same then sex would end up being more of a gratification and profession than of a pleasure and satisfaction.
Also, the Indian mythology attaches a very important place to sex in its own style. Any worldly person is not deemed complete until he copulates and bears off springs and this contributes in a way to his salvation. So it not just for sex!
'sex must involve love' is a good viewpoint and has been well illustrated in the article. you waiting for mr./ms. right is fine .. but then there is no one mr./ms. right
how do you find out who it is then.. you go out.. spend time.. talk...get intimate AND >> have sex. the intimate activity that sex is - you'd know a lot about your relationship after sex. This ain't a one-nite stand and does involve love or purity or whatever you want.
I can not understand what marriage has to do with sex or why we should have sex with that ONE prince(ss) charming.. that something has been passed on for generations doesn't mean itz right..
Its a fabulous way to explain why there is no room for sex before marriage ! I loved it..I strongly believe in marraige and its value and respect it throughly.