In Indian context it is good and that is why our ancestors make them all. Todau not only it herts peolple but they do not want to realise and rethink why they made some traditions culture and customs. Today this is the best way to keep away from the STD's. When we do not realise these small things we will be heading towards leading the world towards AIDS in few years. Thanks for bringing this Topic.
You are right. It is not the Sex which is involved. But once you are attached to anyone your thoughts will take you there and you will want to meet him/her again and again.
Half the troubles are there because we do not control our senses. Once we do that Life will be beautiful in our own eyes.
When we behave like Animals, our childeren also becomes Animals. All the illicit population and so called mistresses are the root cause for so called confusion/depression and greed. We can contribute by atleast controlling our senses.
Why repent later. Wise man thinks before the problem comes and a fool repents after the mess. Choice is ours.
RE:No sex please
by VIBS on Aug 11, 2006 06:53 PM Permalink
If you feel he is just fooling around with you in the name of love, dump him and never look back. He is just using you for his own whims and fancies. Over the years, he has had enough and very soon he would not look at you. Plan a better life, you have the time and there is a good partner somewhere for sure.
Yes, I fully agree. I am a single woman divorced 23 years back and yearning for a loving man to come into my life.I met this friends husband who came into my life full of promises and love till death do us apart. Our relationship continued for 8 years, but of late I have begun to feel used and degraded the way he is treating meTho he claims to still love me I have bgegun to feel that he wants me only for sex and that too only when he wants it.
RE:Feeling depressed
by ajith on Aug 02, 2006 02:12 PM Permalink
Time is less for u .Else u will loose someone who can really love u...stop w8ing just slap him and find someone thats good...Rember life is long and we have less time left
Your friend is prepared with questions to prove her points. She cannot come up with many questions to prove her point.
When you see, people trying to say sex with anybody will end up comparing themselves with animals.
Culture i.e. the way the one is brought up. Her ideas, thoughts, other behavioral related aspects totally rely on what the individual is experiencing in her childhood lets say between 10 to 15. The reflection will be seen on the individual between 16 and 22.
Some people say sex is science. I agree but there are factors that trigger the hormones. I have no extras chars left now to discuss it here.
I will go with the author. There is no fulfilled sex with out a relationship. Relationship is wonderful thing. People who have experienced it will never say sex is like eating, sleeping etc.
LOVE and SEX are different. People who are immature will get confused between these two.
I completely agree with you. I am completing 30 years in in this weekend and in same situation like you. The world is tempting and it will keep tempting you and me for many such things through friends, colleagus. I always thought sex after marriage and never crossed that limit. For me the reason is simple, respecting Gods and his regulations. Can't imagine to be unholy and sit in prayer and raise my hands to heaven after doing pre marital or extra marital affair.
Don't worry, I am hearing these words like old fashioned, I am mad, don't know how to enjoy life, rude at females etc.. for long time. keep it up. God will reward you for this one day.
Hi, I went through ur article. I personnaly agree more with ur friend then u. Largely because a physical relationship will not afeect both the parties unlike a emotional bonding.
