Hi, i very much agree to your write up. you have forgotten to tell your friend that man is also the only animal to have a fully funtional and 'thinking' brain. and yes no to sex before marriage or outside marriage too. lets not succumb to western cultures and other mass media outputs.
It is the woman who bears the brunt of a sexual encounter. She has to bear the child, not the man! So she has to take a decision when she has to go in the child making act.
Marriage is a sealing; a bond that gives the child a family, parents and siblings. A family provides space to chidlren where they grow and develop. A family absorbs an individuals hardships and anxieties and provides care and nursing.
By nature women are choosy as they must look for someone with committment. They are instinctive and inquisitive just to make sure they are not wrong.
But at the base, they are an emotional lot. They fall prey easily to the smart man's charm. They pick wrong signals and loose their feet. In sheer passion, they slip and fall down. They make wrong decisions and and feel guilty about them whole life.
But women of human species are smart. They make the man partner in child care activity; unlike the dogs. But why the man stick to the family for so long; Because he is also an emotional lot. He dotes his wife and loves his kids. So what if he does not give birth; he feels the birth pangs. His emotional bonds with the family are hard enough to stop him from straying
Hi I am totally agree with you.Sex is not just an act.It is also an emotonal feelings.There shuold be love trust and commitment.If you are in a marriage and you can enjoy great sex than in a one night stand or other relationship.You know sex is a mental game.I have read lot of article about the marriage and other relationship.The people those are married enjoying the life more than those who are in a live-in or other relationship.Mentally there are sound than the others.So get married and enjoy your sex and marital life peacefully.
the views are really good....and i completely agree on the point that sex is more than just a physical need ....however, I feel its more of a cultural issue with us. I dont think all those who indulge in physical activities without tying the knot do something wrong...
infact why is sex such a taboo....its just a normal human need.....also, we must not compare any of our actions with animals .....animals dont reason ...we humans do....we know why we act in a certain manner...
coming back to the point.....i dont believe that marriage is the certificate for sex....if you love someone dearly ...what would marriage change....it would probably just legalise the children (if u bear any in such an act)
offlate, if you say that you only want to indulge in sex after marriage, most of the people make fun of you and give you lots of the reasons to go for sex.
No doubts, sex is the ultimate pleasure. But in my views, i may be wrong but very much firm on it,one should involve in sex with the person after marriage. Sex comes last in a relationship where you love someone from the core of your heart, get married to that person & then get the feel of the ultimate pleasure in the world.However,it comes first when you get attracted to somebody who is sex appealing.
We are human beings not animals. We have morals, we have commitments. In my views, comittments, sentiments, loyalty come first then you get married and then involve in sex as you are surrendering not only your body in the hands of other person but also you sentiments, emotions,loyalties.
You are giving a right to the person to invade into your virginity that is the treasure of the human being he or she should keep for only a single person in life.
I appreciate your bold and honest views on sex. Sex is a gift of God to be enjoyed in the marriage relationship. Men respect women who live by such principles and have self respect. God bless you and grant you the grace to stand firm in your convictions.
