Yes, I do get angry very quickly when some body tries to play prank with me or someone tries to humiliates or plays with my emotions. I just shout at them and vent out my anger. Thereafter I cool down when they ask forgiveness with me wholeheartedly or cry myself in an isolated spot.
I do get angry about things not happening as per my expectation. But I think I must act maturedly..by not venting my anger and demoralising others; hence, I try to explain to other person how he should perform better next time. That way I maintain my relationship in tact with other person.
Everyone gets angry at some point of time in their lives. But I wonder how many of us try to control our anger when we CAN really give it back to the guy or situation who angers us in the first place. Its like this: if a guy stronger than us pisses us off ( a situation we have no control over) what is the point in getting angry? If the guy is weaker than us ( or a situation which is under our control) then showing our displeasure is not a problem at all at various degrees of retaliation. But I feel in both the above situations SILENCE is a better weapon.
wel i get angry whn ppl dnt listn to me,do nt let me do wat i want to do n whn somebdy shouts or scolds me widout any reason....n da only way i mk myself calm is by talkin to someone who is close to me or by cryin....
I really get angry when I see alot of unnecessary accummulated rubbish in houses or flats. Things that are no longer required and of n value should be either removed, destroyed or given away. Old letters, old cards, old perfume or aftershave bottles etc etc should be discarded when over and not kept for years and years as I often feel this causes a blockage in and around us preventing us from moving around and taking our space so to say. Very often people often think only of themselves, a selfish lot and this can ve go in even between husband and wives in homes around us. The quicker rubbish or accummulated items are removed, the better making the home a better place to live in ie clean, tidy, beautiful - I always feel a thing of beauty is a job forever especially homes where little children reside and grow to thrive in their environment. Hence the topic 'Cleanliness is next to Godliness" is so appropriate for clean, healthy living not only in homes even on the roads, streets etc around and about us. Seeing gabbage all over on the roads, streets etc is a sight for sore eyes and upsetting to view and most importantly unhealthy for children. Please keep your City clean!!
Yes i do get angry very quickly, I get angry when anybody humiliates me, do not reply to my response,do not listen to my advice / comments. Of Course it seems silly,But i have lost many of my friends due to this disorder.I also get scoldings from my parents , relatives,but i am unable to control this. Please advice me to control this disorder before it reaches to the extreme leval.
Yes, I have an anger problem. This is because I live and mingle in a society/community and every-day come across with the whole spectrum of people having a variety of attitudinal beheaviour. I am inherently peaceful and always admire people calm and composed, but this is on the surface level. I do not know them how they react when provoked Therefore, in the larger perspective, it is very difficult to fathom anger problem with an individual.
Coming back, even with a motivated consciousness to contain anger problem, I get myself inflamed with rage when I see things perceived to be unholy. Of the many things, let me take a single case when I travel in the train. If a Virar train happens to halt at Goregaon Station for signal, you can see the physical fights. The gangs/thugs form themselves a fort to prevent passengers on the platform to get in. Inspite of the fact that having sufficient space inside for accommodating his fellow men, they sit down on the compartment clutching their legs at the entrances deliberately blocking entry for others. I have seen even the school/college going students and elders virtually beg to let them in, but they do not relent. In the evenings when I take train back home - commute only 2 stations from Jogeshwari to Malad - it becomes increasingly difficult to get in. The moment trains halts at Jogeshwari Station, the people from inside barge in to the entrance, preventing entry for fellow commuters. You plead and beg, nothing moves them. When train moves away from platform, these guys look at you and mock. I am a senior citizen.
I struggle to overcome my simmering rage within. I try to inject in me with positive thinking that this is Bombay - its struggle for existence and we cant help it you are vulnerable and you ought to know this. Then I try to think about some happiest moments in my life I try to hum my favorite melodies of our great singers I think about my children, particularly my little grand-child the serious talks we have when I struggle to climb to my 3rd floor flat she stops me in the middle and pleads me that I take her on my shoulder. Alas! without my knowledge my anger melts away to smiles.
